Some adults may question the wisdom of including preschool children in worship. It is true that they sometimes distract those around them and distress parents by their behavior. In spite of this possibility, as members of the family, they are needed by all of us to complete the circle at God’s table.

The preschool child comes to worship with:

a short attention span
seemingly endless energy
a growing curiosity about everything

With this in mind, there are several things parents can do to make the preschooler’s experience - and everyone’s - more relaxed and enjoyable.

Sit near the front where the child can have a clear view of the sanctuary.

Prepare the child for the different parts of the worship service, explaining special events ahead of time and answering questions that need an answer right now in a quiet whisper.

Allow the preschooler to bring along a favorite animal, picture books, coloring books or other quiet toys to play with during the service.

Encourage as much adult-like behavior as the child can tolerate. Allow children to be active within the limits of the situation, as long as the activity is not distracting to others.

Use the quiet time of church as a chance for special togetherness of parents and child which may not always be possible during the week.

A sensitivity to the preschooler’s abilities and needs can help make worship a pleasant experience for everyone.

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